How To Stay Positive While Online Dating

Believe it or not, it is possible for dating to drag people down. It can be rough on a person’s self esteem if they are putting in a lot of effort into dating without not getting anything in return. This is why self love is key. No matter how you choose to date, you should always feel empowered  in the dating world. If you want to feel empowered while visiting online dating sites, start focusing on making real connections. Here are some tips that you may find useful:
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Step out of your comfort zone
A wise man once said ‘ Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results’. If you’re not getting what you want out of your online dating experience, then it may be time to try something new. Start saying yes to things you wouldn’t usually say yes to, for example changing the distance settings on your profile. It’s the little things that make the biggest difference and over time, you’ll be able to open yourself up to new experiences. Also, don’t be put off if your first date isn’t a dinner date. Coffee dates are just as great because you can use it as an opportunity to get to know the person that you’re with in a more intimate setting.
Appreciate yourself
Although it’s pretty obvious, you will be surprised at how many people are looking for a partner to compensate for a self love deficit. Before you put yourself out there, be confident with what you are bringing to the table. If this means writing a list about all the things you love about yourself then so be it. Spend some time to reflect on what is good in your life. Be grateful for the life that you have without instantly expecting anything in return. By living in the moment, you’ll be able to see dating as a fun way to get to know people.
Don’t overdo it
In a previous post, I talked about protecting your time and energy when online dating. Not everyone who gives you attention is worthy of your time. Only go on dates with people you know you have chemistry with. Going on a date for the sake of going on a date will feel like a chore. Don’t be like this individual who went on so many dates, she started tracking the potential of her dates on a spreadsheet. If something doesn’t feel right, don’t go on the date. Making empowering decisions will lift your spirits and value what it is you expect from a dating experience.
Listen to an uplifting anthem
…or video, podcast or whatever motivates you. Sometimes, when a dating experience doesn’t go your way, it’s easy to feel down. Instead of indulging in that tub of ice cream, listen to a song that makes you happy or a podcast that lifts your spirits. Listening to something that inspires/motivates you will shift your mindset. Once you’ve got over your rut, hold your head high and put yourself back out there!
The most important thing to remember when dating is to be yourself and everything will fall into place. If you live in the Cheshire area, then check out this lovely Cheshire dating site . There are a lot of dating sites in Cheshire  so if you’d like the chance to meet someone special, then create a profile today.
Are you an online dating optimist or pessimist? How do you stay positive if you’ve had an awkward or bland date? I always love to hear from you so do comment below.
Kel xo
 

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